May God use every circumstance in our lives to show us our desperate need for Him to intervene in our families. May we never rely on our methods or on saying the right words to our kids. May we fall to our knees in utter abandon to His free grace and mercy and plead for Him to save our children.
-Give Them Grace
We have completely isolated young people from adults and created a peer culture. We stick them in school and keep them from working in a meaningful way. In most non-industrialized societies young people are integrated into adult society as soon as they are capable, and there is no sign of turmoil. Many cultures do not even have a term for adolescence. But we not only created this stage of life: we declare it inevitable.
- Robert Epstein
It is easier to send my children to a program during worship instead of having them with me. Isn’t having children in worship putting too much emphasis on them?
We agree having children in worship is a lot of work and can be distracting to other worshipers. We also agree wholeheartedly that it is sinful and wrong (idolatry) to put too much emphasis on children. Having acknowledged these realities, the reason we invite children into worship i
s because they were present in the worship services of the early church (Ephesians 6:1). Just as we desire people from all tongues, tribes, and nations to come to faith in Jesus Christ and worship Him, so too we desire the church’s children to come to faith in Jesus Christ and worship Him. So, in the hope that God would graciously regenerate the children by means of their hearing and believing the gospel, we invite them into the worship service.
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Remember, the reason to worship together is largely so that our children can properly learn how to worship. Sure, they might learn from others, but there are special things that children learn from their parents that they cannot easily learn elsewhere. Besides, how can you be sure that your child is not somewhere else playing a game or passing notes to a friend? What is it that we want our children to learn from us?
We desire that they learn how God is the greatest One in the universe and He only is to be worshiped and adored. If we are bored at worship services, certainly our hearts have grown cold. We are in essence training our children that God is not really great or glorious at all. We are communicating to them that salvation is nothing special.
If we are glad the service is over so that we can now get on with our ‘life,’ what does this teach our child? Early in children’s lives, they should learn through the parents’ passionate devotion the awesome wonder and glory of God
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We’re gearing up for the release of “Children in Church: Nurturing Hearts of Worship.” (Sorry we cannot give you an exact date yet, bug the publishers for that info). We recently received this short but heart-warming note about the book from Israel Wayne, author, speaker, and entrepreneur:
“Well, I think you handled a very controversial issue with grace , tact and a lot of Scripture. Can’t fail with that combo.”
We’re grateful that God has allowed us to take part in the discussion.
… a church that ministers effectively to all age groups will keep the gospel alone as the foundation for church life and unity. Believers of all ages must be taught that our union with Christ, regardless of age, is what makes us one body. A ten year- old Christian has more in common with an eighty-year-old Christian than with ten-year-old unbelievers. Where this is recognized and celebrated, real gospel-centered community thrives.
Even the youngest children instinctively strive towards God and are more receptive than adults to goodness and Divine grace. We must nurture in them the feeling that they are in their Father’s House. That feeling will not be conceived within them of its own accord, if we do not guide them to it, if we do not bring them to Church.